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My question is what's the best way to engage the possibilty of sexual encounters through POF? Problem is most explain explicitly that they are not on it for the sex but is it best to set up dates with more than sex intention and then leave it after that or is it better to just be upfront about intentions?

I'm told I'm attractive by girls, have good pics with a suit, doing things, etc. And I get maybe 1 match a day, with 9 out of 10 matches being bots. To be fair though I was getting the good results in a different city, I now live in a military town so I'm sure that is having an effect on my output as well. So you just compared results from two different cities? If you're still in a big city, Tinder has hundreds of matches available. It lacks so many options that could make it better. Such as being able to favorite matches, sort by age, using pictures outside of FB etc.

This girl who i was hanging out with friends was doing exactly that. She would make dates with no intention of going. I called her out on it for being a bitch to those poor dudes. Tinder is awful for it. Almost all of the girls on there have absolutely no intention meeting with somebody from there.

From the hundreds of matches I've had probably 3 meets? As someone moving into a big city for school, from a small beach-town tourist trap, I hope my luck is better than yours. Sometimes those girls who specifically say they don't want sex are the easiest to bang. Never talk about sex fist before meeting. Get her to meet somewhere near you place. Use body language when meeting her. After 30m-1hr into the date commence kino. If the response is good go in for a kiss to lay groundwork.

Convince her to come back with you specifically stating that you will be good. Once in your place go in for it rather swiftly. Escalate until your using tricks to get her wet, rub over pants, dry hump.

Congratulations you just got laid off POF. Every girl I have had sex with first date, no less from online dating sites has had some form of disclaimer in their profile about how they don't want a one night stand, not looking for hookups, etc. I will just present facts. POF indicates that men who put on their profile they are "seeking a relationship" receive more emails by some huge margin over men who are seeking something "casual".

I guess she really brought out the extremely rough and dominant and forceful sexual animal inside me because that was a turning point in my sexual style. Before I was pretty vanilla in the bed. But after her I became a wrist grabbing, pin her down, pull her hair and leave red marks and bruises all over her kind of guy. And apparently many girls like that ALOT. Which I will get to in the next 2 stories. I fell asleep early.

The third one is the least interesting. We met at a bar in midtown and had some drinks and talked and laughed and talked and laughed. Finally we went back to her house and drank some more and got high and had a great time. Finally when I asked her if she wanted to "go upstairs".

She said "oh my god I thought you would never ask!! We fucked like crazy that night and then we started hanging out more and more and actually ended up dating for about 8 months. I know that one wasn't very interesting but she was an important part of my life. Next story is more like the other 2. I'm a recovering meth addict, going on six years now, and doing that on craigslist was a low point for me. There's a secret cult of gay dudes who spent all of their days and nights making fake posts to try and give straight guys head and don't seem to respect the boundaries of individual's sexualities and seem to think they can "convert" straight guys or something.

There's a specific guy in my area who's actively trying to get into my pants and seems to also know details about me, constantly citing where he's seen me lately as an attempt to scare me into letting him go down on me so he'll go away.

The converting the straight guy thing isn't an uncommon fantasy, but pretending to be girls just to get the reply is still an asshole thing to do. I can understand the fantasy, but at some point guys like that should probably figure out that it isn't exactly a switch that can be flipped. I mean I wouldn't try to convince a gay guy to let a girl go down on him to turn him bi or straight, or try to convince a gay girl that she should let me eat her out because she "might like it.

I used it a couple of times. A few quick blowies, nothing more. A little over 6 months ago I met up with a girl on campus via craigslist. We exchanged emails and agreed that we wanted to "cuddle. We watched Netflix Bojack Horseman and Arrested Development , ate Chinese food, and banged three times that night we walked all the way to my dorm and back to hers to get condoms. Actually, yesterday was my first experience. I'd been craving a lesbian experience for quite a while, and the girl who messaged me was really literate and cute so I went ahead and met up with her.

We got along pretty well, and she was a lot cuter in real life which was a huge plus. When we got to her place it was a little awkward. I really enjoyed kissing her and cuddling her, but the sex was super lame. It felt kind of gross. I've never have had sex with a stranger, and to me it just doesn't feel right.

I couldn't cum I was so anxious and shy around her. She didn't communicate well, so I had a hard time finding what she liked. I mean, everyone has their own thing. I went down on her and let me tell you, it was so fucking nasty. I wretched two times but I don't think she noticed. I don't think she cleaned it well, and she shaved it so my mouth and pussy hurt afterward. I have a bigger appreciation for natural hair now. Anyway, in the end neither of us finished: I really wish we never did anything, and just kissed, cuddled, and talked.

I don't know if that would have satisfied her, but it would me. Her lips were so fucking soft, and she was so beautiful. I could just look into her eyes and brush back her hair all day. I feel really awkward about it now. It was pretty gross. Finger her first before going down, then lean in for a kiss and smell your fingers, that will give you a good indication of the situation down there. Don't make it obvious, it works best in the dark.

Sorry she wasn't clean - I'd do like the other person said, do the subtle sniff and if it's iffy then suggesting a quick shower together is a good fix. Received a reply from the same girl on two different posts. Decided it was worth a shot, and it certainly was. Sucked me off up until the day she got married, and will no longer speak to me now. I guess nobody told either of you that it's still considered cheating when you're engaged to be married To be perfectly honest, we're getting married on Friday.

I did it a few times. One of the guys I hooked up with for almost a year. Another a few months. Also where I met my bf. We have been dating for 5 years. I never got a reply from anyone that wasn't a bot wanting me to sign up for some sketchy site. I'm sure many horny dudes have received a reply with this pic only to have their hopes dashed: I thought it would be fun to give it a shot, and it was pretty miserable. I figured it would be pretty easy being a woman looking for men.

Half the replies I got were bots, and of the humans, most just wanted more pictures or disappeared when I mentioned actually meeting. Out of the hundred and fifty or so emails I got in one day, after 48 hours I only had two guys who seemed even remotely serious, one of whom refused to send me any pictures or anything so I had to bail.

When I met up with the other guy at a fast food place he was clearly on drugs, looked like meth or a lot of cocaine. Nothing but crazies, in the sense of literally mentally ill. But I'm crazy too so it mostly works out. I have used craigslist on average once a month for 6 years for sex. I am a good looking 25 year old dude. Started when i was 19, I said i was 22, had sex with a really sexy 44 year old woman.

She was cool and the sex was great. Then i had sex with a student from a local college, and again it was amazing. She was the first asian girl i had ever been with and was absolutely gorgeous. For about a year after that I used it multiple times a week, I live in a city and there is a ton of people using it. Another aspect is it allows you to find people who have similar kinks as you easier than fetlife or any similar site. I have an absolute thing for "t-girls" and have great luck on there, have even dated one after meeting has happened with a natural girl as well.

Those were the only times I was disappointed, every once in a while you get fake pictures and a dude in a wig, which is creepy but not scary. No one has ever been scary or dangerous, although the act of all this obviously is. I must have lucked out never getting majorly sick or hurt by anyone. One of my first encounters was with an alleged MMA fighter who claimed that having a lot of sex the night before was the best way he could shake off pre fight jitters.

Holy shit we fucked for like 2 hours the first time and at least 2 maybe more the second time. He was really interesting and down to earth. We talked about how beautiful life can be and how important it is to be open to life's experiences. He was some kind of black middle eastern I don't know, I'm white like rice. We talked a lot about how we wished more people were of the mindset that we are all one people, we are all gods children and there is nothing that separates us other than our own lack of trust and inability to forget our differences.

We fooled around 1 more time a few weeks later. He was the first man in my life to give me an orgasm every time we hooked up, he still is the only person I have genuinely simultaneously climaxed with. I met another guy. We dated for two years He was a control freak, extremely insecure and kind of a pedophile. He paid my rent though, but I have legitimate ptsd from that relationship. Then I met another guy who I really really liked as a person, the sex was pretty good but he was pretty premature and never once made me come.

Not the end of the world but things very nearly became serious until he told me because of how we met, he could never fully trust me There where many other men. They were all most all shitty people, total fucking liars, terrible lays, or just flat out idiots. Never had a terrible experience. Only caught an std once and it was very curable. I will say though that craigslist has ruined a handful of potentially very fulfilling relationships and I do not recommend hooking up to anyone.

I got way lucky. I could have gotten HIV or been murdered. I have had some stalkers though. Thankfully I think I've shaken them off by changing my name and phone number. I have had so;me stalkers though.

Thankfully I think I've shaken them off b y changing my name and number. The name change was not due to the stalker situation, but afterward strange men no longer casually greeted me by my full legal name at the supermarket so that was nice. Makes me feel like possible details are missing from stories. But the stories are great none the less. Almost did it once because an old friend of mine did it, but immediately was deterred after hearing more of his stories of craigslist. Will never use it because of him.

Not just because I'm in a relationship, but because the people are either crazy, gross, or a mixture of the two.

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