These are all items on the menu priced by the brothel. I do not offer oral sex without a condom either. I still see my casual sex partners regularly, but it's less of a necessity. There was also a booking where I played pool for four hours naked in high heels. That was especially fun. Do you find sex with paying customers truly arousing, or are there certain customers who just don't turn you on?
What do you do if you're not in the mood? When I'm not immediately attracted to a guy I try to find some common ground or something about him I like.
If I'm just completely not into it, which doesn't happen, I fake enthusiasm and use a lot of lube. How often do you have sex in your personal sex life? And what's the most outrageous or risky sexual thing you've ever done?
The most outrageous would be some ropes and bondage. Are there any fetishes that you enjoy outside work? Would you ever consider working in an establishment that promotes this kind of thing? I probably wouldn't consider working in fetish though because I like keeping those things for my personal sex life.
In the interest of exploring all sides of the debate, I tracked down a friend-of-a-Facebook-friend who agreed to talk to me about his experience with prostitutes — or "prosties" as he called them — and why he frequents a Toronto brothel.
Tim, a divorced year-old from Mississauga who hasn't had free sex in over six months, met me at a pub. I was shocked at how easy it was to find someone with personal experience and didn't know exactly what to ask. Thankfully, he wanted to share. He admits that "regular sex" would be a better option, but says it's difficult to meet people in his circles.
Still, "doing it with someone I see a lot … that'd be better I guess. He tells me about his lost love, his ex-wife. His eyes light up when he talks about their honeymoon heat — but they darken again when the conversation turns. He starts ranting about one lady in particular at the "house" he frequents.
His emotional attachment to her is clear "she's pretty and really sweet, you'd like her, I swear" and he genuinely thinks she cares about him. What about your safety? Tim's response is quick, and blunt: He uses protection, but admits, "when I get to that point and I'm there, I'm not worried about safety.
When Tim and I part ways, I walk home, confident in my original advice, but saddened for those who can't avoid prostitution. The decision to pay someone for sex not only diminishes the act, I think to myself, but devalues both parties involved.
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