All the successful creative professionals I know which is quite a few do this. Honestly, paying for sex is the cheapest, simplest, easiest way to get it. Yeah, you don't get that "connection" etc yadda yadda , but after a certain age and a certain amount of experience in the sexual marketplace, you finally realize: Better to just put it on the table and treat it like the business deal that it is, then everyone knows exactly what's expected deliverables and no one is disappointed.
It's ridiculous to think there isn't a "connection. This is the really scary part. MANY of these women aren't even that attractive. I was brought to TRP because my ex-whore girlfriend became a prostitute, and slept with an entire sexual history worth of guys in a month and a half behind my back.
I found out the friends that had gotten her into it. All fucked up feminist, hippie looking bitches who you wouldn't glance at twice in passing. Another thing she did was fly to a major city in the top 5 largest in NA to meet with men. My gf was a very attractive spanish girl, an exotic Rihanna kind of look. BUT the friend who pimped her out in this city, who did this stuff herself, was an average looking asian girl, a little too thick and generic, maybe a 7 on the best day.
We're not talking fat, out of shape, beta losers either. I would like to think that they were of course, but based on my looking into it, it seems that wasn't the case. These were guys who if they felt like putting the effort in, probably could have as good of looking girls for free.
This isn't a good thing. Why waste a night doing it for free when you can get half a grand? Every woman with an ounce of an attractive quality will be a used wasteland of previous dickings to the point where sex will just be a numbing thing they do for cash. Those sorts of men are often paying those women not for sex, but rather to go away after the sex, and leave the men to their busy lives. The guys do not want a divorce and all the drama that results. They guys just want some NSA sex, which is often not available to them.
Because as soon as gals find out the guys have money, the demands for a relationship begin. And if the guy has a wife and kids at home, well, does he really want to risk the wrath of a pissed off extra marital partner blowing up his life? I deleted tinder, ok Cupid and bumble for and don't regret it. I'm a good looking guy who had some lays through them, but it's a waste of time. Only time I would get tinder again is if I'm traveling somewhere. Then about an hour later, asks me where I was.
Yeah, I ended up having a good day and did other stuff, but it's disrespectful. I wouldn't do that type of shit with my guy friends. Not just that, but there are many times where a woman won't look as good as her pictures do. I might do tinder when I'm in my 30s and have my own place and invited them over "for drinks. Even when a chick shows a lot of initial interest, they have a tendency to go cold.
Otherwise it's safe to assume she's gained 40lbs etc. Yes, your 2nd point I think just happened to me. So much for "I don't normally give out my phone number right away". What you said makes sense. I'm feeling you, but I'm older already and it's a huge fucking waste of time I think.
I did meet one woman and had fun with her, but she's a drug user and obviously FULL of issues didn't know before hand. I mean I'm 25 and like I said previously, had some lays through there, but know it's mostly a waste of time. My best was this Brazilian chick who I met off tinder and we made out the first time we met.
Did a lot of texting and escalating for that one. Her face wasn't that great, but had a very good body. Very nice to me, had great sex multiple positions, shower sex, etc.
Sadly, she had to go back to Brazil. I do miss the sex we had. I suppose I'm refocusing on my online entrepreneurial pursuits because I constantly get sent back into the mindset of "women are not worth the time I put in I'll rephrase, even if they aren't accepting it - the offers are there.
If you want to believe otherwise, that's fine. You know, there is actually something between accepting nothing from a man and taking it in the shitter six times a day for rent. Doesn't make sense, but ok. There are a lot of thirsty guys, specially older guys with disposable income and few options but that's not the norm. There are sub sets of society in the whole sugar daddy set but that's not the norm.
Op must be in a weird part of society:. I know it's anecdotal, but of all my single female friends, for many years, this has never been the case. And we are all ages Women who do that are trashy. And even if there were favors exchanged, never with men at any given time. If this were even plausible it'd be more like They aren't your friends. You are in their stables. Men cannot be friends with single females. They is always an element of sexuality to it.
It's wired into us, both men and women. The sooner you recognize that, the safer you will be. I'm not telling you to lose their numbers; I'm tell you to take the pill and swallow. I am a female. We are not supposed to announce ourselves as that side bar rules in order to remain objective, but I'm glad to clarify.
And I agree with you though- men and women cannot be "just friends" unless it's some weird extenuating circumstance, of which I can think of almost no examples. Some entertain more, some less. The options are there like a revolving door. It's a "buyer's market" to a level real estate has never seen if you're a woman even if older, out of shape, multiple kids with different fathers, on prescription or recreational drugs in the US.
I saw your response to the other poster and I agree, the offers are always there, but the post had said that these single women actually were taking them up on the offers. Which, is gross to even think about. Now that is an opinion, if I could have women paying me to do vile shit to them, I probably would. And I have serious career prospects. Whats a bimbo gonna do?
As a bimbo, nothing. There are bimbos who are trashy and gross, and bimbos that still wouldn't do that. It's a distinction with very little actual difference - the majority of which boils down to TVM preference differences and differing probability estimates of success in the big haul.
I dunno about that. Even if any of them were riding multiple guys NO more than 2 at one time, they weren't trying to see if one was "the right guy". For my friends to even consider the "one", the relations had to be untainted from day 1. If "tainted," why ride? I can't agree with this more. The typical girls' kitty litterbox protocols cannot be overstated. Finding out a girl you go on coffee dates with is banging a guy her dad's age for rent or finding out she's banging a guy her dad's age for free?
You think "Girls you know would never do that" Why? Probably because you gave her a ride to the airport last week and she still won't bang you.
The above bust happened last year and who did they bust for "human trafficking"? Keep this in mind if you decide to do business with these whores. It will be your face and name in the news next to the whore who trafficked herself. Of course, she's a prostitute so it's not like she's losing anything. Human trafficking is largely a hoax. It is yet another way that women escape accountability and if there's one thing we know there are plenty of beta cucks desperate to find an excuse for female villainy.
She's not some prostitute who traveled illegally across international borders to make 10 times as much in the Occident. She's a victim of teh evil menz who lured her into the business and then put her on a street corner and made her fuck dudes for money. Don't believe that shit for a second. Why incur the cost of finding, abducting, training, and then guarding unwilling prostitutes when there are so many women willing to engage in the trade already?
And any one of your customers could be tipped off by the "victim" and bring the law down on you. That's a high risk low reward business model. And where are all these women who have been trafficked? They claim millions and millions. A spattering of women here and there actually appear who tell unconfirmed stories and are closely tied to some feminist organization.
Human Trafficking is the new "rape game" where women are the perpetual victim and men are once again the villain. It's a cash cow for women's groups on the international level.
A global scam where numbers are inflated and no transparency is required and notorious UN corruption is happily playing along.. Wanna fuck these bitches up? Report them to the police. Tell them that there is human trafficking on Tender or whatever. Rat the cunts out and get them put in the paper for human trafficking.
They have absolved women of accountability and placed the blame on men even though most of those arrested for trafficking are women who traffic other women.
Favorable ratio isn't happening unless there's a major event like war in which men die in large numbers and in which case you're just as likely to contribute to the ratio by dying as you are to benefit from it. Relocating for a more favorable ratio might be worth considering as job mobility creates geographical variation in the ratio.
If only prostitution were legal in the US. We wouldn't have to worry about things like this. If you were looking for it, you could go to a website specifically tailored for that. It sucks that online dating is being ruined by women who no longer have an outlet for their services.
I'd imagine actual sex trafficking would go down as well because it would be easier to spot the difference between someone working against their will and someone who is just trying to earn a living. The people using sketchy online outlets in that situation are going to be the ones actually doing the trafficking then because they would still be doing something illegal.
Everyone else could just be out in the open. Narrows down the field and helps lock up people who actually deserve it. We can fix it for ourselves but we will never fix the entire market.
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Anyone else notice this? Humpty Dumpty will be put back together before the US has a favorable ratio. Want to add to the discussion? Make cohabitation for two years the legal equivalent.
Stop watching mainstream media? Bribe online corporations to ban and censor 'fake news'. Have you ever been there? Its not like black or Latino middle class citizens are going around shooting people in Chicago.
But some rhetorical questions I wonder who runs the government? And like Charlie Sheen says: Three willing pensioners, Tony, Annette and Sheila, were asked by MailOnline to explain what a selection of baffling terms for sexual practices mean.
But refusing to admit defeat they came up with often hilarious and wildly imaginative alternative definitions.
To ease our three volunteers into the session we first asked them to define the 'friend zone' - where someone remains a friend no matter how hard they try to turn a friendship into a relationship.
Tony proved to be rather knowledgeable, proving his knowledge of today's sex slang was bang up to date. Annette was able to provide some trivia about Hitler enjoying golden showers. After hearing about Tinder, Sheila admitted she was rather keen on having an account. Next the three pensioners were asked if they had every heard of the dating app Tinder - which proved to be of great interest with Sheila even asking how she might access it.
Following on from this the elderly participants asked what they thought 'ABC sex' was. The question left them baffled and providing a range of entertaining suggestions for its meaning but never guessing it meant only making love on anniversaries, birthdays and Christmas.
When it came to defining 'blue balls', one member of the team was bang on the money while the other two had a go at explaining what it means. When asked what a friend zone was Annette said: One of your erotic zones perhaps'. Sheila had never heard of teabagging but upon finding out, she admitted that she would 'be tempted to bite them'. Though he originally thought that a friend zone was an erogenous zone, when he found out its true meaning Tony admitted he may have friend zoned people in the past.
Though initially unaware of the term 'teabagging', Sheila was rather enthusiastic, joking, 'I'd be tempted to bite'. The most sensitive subject proved to be the golden shower - an act where a partner urinates on another. The brave trio agreed to have their sexual knowledge put to the test as they enjoyed a civilised cup of tea and some biscuits. Annette's final sketch of the bachelor's tuxedo is wide of the mark however. She imagined it consisted of a chap dressed in a bowtie and G-string, which isn't quite what the term means.
Annette was armed with some rather interesting trivia about golden showers claiming that Hitler was keen on the practice. Annette scribbles a bare chested stick man on to the white board, wearing just a bow tie 'and some fancy trimming on his g-string as well'.
But when she was told that, despite her great effort, she was supposed to draw a condom, she responded by pretending to bang her head against the wall.
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